When a relationship ends, family mediation can help sort out important issues, like dividing finances or making arrangements for the children. It is a process where both sides collaborate with a mediator to find solutions, avoiding the need for court.
How to Prepare for Family Mediation
To get the most out of mediation, it is helpful to come prepared. Think about what you want to achieve, whether that is resolving financial matters or making decisions about the children. If finances are involved, you may need to gather financial documents, and the mediator will guide you on what is required—usually at the first or second session. MST Lawyers can assist you to prepare in advance of the initial mediation intake appointment.
Why Mediation Can Be a Better Choice
Mediation is voluntary, meaning you and the other party have control over the process and can move at your own pace. It is often less stressful and quicker than going to court, as there is no strict court timetable to follow. Plus, it can be more affordable since both parties share the cost of the mediator. However, if you each have your own lawyer, you will pay separately for their services.
Getting Ready for Mediation
Preparation can make a big difference. This might include gathering financial paperwork, knowing your legal rights, and setting clear goals for what you hope to achieve. Emotional readiness is also important. Support from family, friends, or professionals can help you stay calm and focused during the sessions.
While mediation can be emotional, having clear goals in mind can keep you on track. Listening to your former partner’s perspective and keeping an open mind can also make the process smoother.
If you need legal advice, you can consult a lawyer in the background, as the mediator will only provide legal information, not advice. MST Lawyers is able to provide that advice and to help guide you through the mediation process if that is what you require.
Tips for a Productive Mediation
It is important to focus on the future, even though past issues will come up in discussions. Mediation is about finding a way forward.
Be prepared to compromise. Mediation works best when both sides are open to negotiation and willing to find middle ground. This often leads to a better and quicker resolution for everyone involved.
Mediation is about working together to move forward—so stay open, stay calm, and keep the future in mind.
Contact MST Lawyers’ experienced Family Law Team today for expert assistance, legal advice or representation on (03) 8540 0200 or by email to familylaw@mst.com.au
Article By Carmel Morrison
